When did surviving become a full time job?
Maybe you've spent so long adapting, coping, and holding it together that you've lost touch with what you actually feel underneath it all. That's what anxiety and trauma do; they teach your nervous system to stay on guard long after the danger has passed, and it can leave you feeling wired, numb, or both at once.
Somerville is a city full of creative, driven, community-minded people, and it’s also an expensive, fast-paced place to build a life. Between rising rent, long work hours, grad school, side projects, and showing up for friends and family, it’s easy to keep going on autopilot. If you’re also the eldest daughter, the first in your family to build a career, or the child of immigrants, you may be carrying expectations that nobody around you sees. You may look like you have it together while feeling exhausted and alone.
Anxiety and trauma therapy aren't about erasing what happened. It's about helping your body and mind understand that you're safe now, so you can stop just surviving and start actually living.
You may also notice that:
Many of the ways you cope today began as ways of staying safe. Staying alert, keeping the peace, achieving, caretaking, and staying quiet all make sense when you’ve lived in environments where you needed them. For many BIPOC adults, those environments include families shaped by migration and loss, communities where mental health isn’t openly discussed, and spaces where racism and microaggressions are a regular part of life.
You may have grown up hearing “what will people say?” or “we don’t talk about that.” So you learned to minimize your pain and handle things on your own.
None of this means something is wrong with you. It means you adapted.
And now you deserve support that helps you feel safe without having to do it all alone.

Healing doesn’t mean you’ll never feel anxious or that the past will disappear. Over time, many clients find that they:
You don’t need the right words or a clear starting point. We’ll begin by getting to know you and what’s been weighing on you. You set the pace, and you never have to share more than you’re ready to. Early on, we’ll focus on building safety and stability, like learning ways to calm your body and ease overwhelming emotions. When you feel ready, we can gently explore the patterns underneath. Sessions are collaborative and combine practical, evidence-based tools with space for your story.

Hi, I'm Sabiha. I offer virtual anxiety and trauma therapy to adults in Somerville and MA. My work is grounded in cultural humility, evidence-based practice, and a genuine compassion and curiosity towards all of my clients. I’m a licensed clinical social worker in Massachusetts, and I’m passionate about creating a space where you don’t have to be the strong one.
You don't have to have the right words for what happened to you, or even fully understand it yet, to start this work.
My goal is to help you feel safe in your own body again, and to help you build a life that feels like yours, not one shaped by shame or fear.
Accepting clients virtually throughout Virginia and Massachusetts.
Also serving:
440 Monticello Avenue Ste 1802, Norfolk, VA, USA
phone: 617-214-2424 fax: 617-214-2124 email: sabiha@waterlilycounseling.com
Open today | 09:00 am – 08:00 pm |
Copyright © 2026 Water Lily Counseling - All Rights Reserved.